confidence building activities for students

Study, love, time & compatability?
I’m self employed & student and love to constantly work on refining myself personally or biz wise.
After the provisional know eachother phase… I get disgust of the time a loving relationship can take from my productive life.
My past partners mostly just simply worked and after that they consider this their “free time” Weren’t working on anything “big-time” nor enterprising whatsoever.
This difference tends to create tension later on in the relationships after the provisional confidence level/trust building phase {1-3 months}.. afterwhich I get really sensitive to the time & energy a relationship can take away from my productive time. If I don’t manage to integrate my partner into productive activity time {they’re2simple&/or attached} I tend to see no future and loose interest..
It seems like I should find someone like me OR limit things 2 non-loving relationships &/or just casual time to be kept under strict limits/control.
What do you think?
Im a pre-med student and i work with EMS as an EMT. Between work, studying, and classes i have no love life either. A doctor told me once that some careers require to not have a love life but i find this difficult to believe. Find someone who understands what you are going through and if it is right (for the both of you) it can work out. Normally i take Saturday nights (if im not working) to take my “person of interest” out to dinner or a late night movie. Explain to them what is going on. Communication is the key to making it work.
Pt 1 ~ Fall in Love with … YOURSELF! Part 1 of 4