self esteem adolescence
can you be sexless beyond adolescence?
why is my development all fkd up? i am screwed up and nauseated all over, no one will understand and my self esteem is in tatters-i am volatile and really vulnerable. Don’t think i am either very masculine or very feminine, although the latter is probably closer but in lowest moods i look fkg ugly not even a guy could look that bad. Please help
Hello Dolly Mix 
What’s up my friend? don’t be so hard on your self there is nothing at all wrong in being that way in fact it to my mind it is nice to know that,
to many people put pressure on the young who all feel it is important to jump in to bed as fast as they can with a member of the oppersite sex. What a load of rubbish that is when they do most don’t have a clue what to do an make a complete hash over what should be a very important moment for both concerned. Maturity comes from within an I know of many people who have waited till they are in there mid to late twentys before having sex with someone as they wanted other things first, there is nothing wrong with that. I have said before you are who you see in the mirror an that person changes from day to day, if we all went around with a silly grin on our face the men in white jackets would be kept very busy all day locking us all up, Niether can we go around all day with a face like thunder because that scares people away from us. Put on some thing nice an make a special effort then go out side the house an take a nice walk in the sunshine an smile when walking up to people even if you don’t know them an say hello what a great day it is an keep walking they will begin to respond by greeting you in like manner. give it a try an see how many you get to return your smile? if nothing else you would have made a stranger happy an thats a good thing which should make you feel good inside your self, just keep building on that an things will always get better maybe not right away but later.
Adolescent Self-Esteem
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